Don’t Ask Don’t Tell – Podcast
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When I was growing up the way we stayed out of trouble was to not ask anyone about anything. Save yourself from yourself by just keeping quiet about all things.
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When I was growing up the way we stayed out of trouble was to not ask anyone about anything. Save yourself from yourself by just keeping quiet about all things.
Popularity: 4% [?]
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Man you have a way with words. This is 50% funny and 50% hard core. Keep doing your thing freeman.
Whats funny is that I met a an old high school friend and he ask me what Ive been up to…. Then he said you got way better grades than me I thought you would have your masters by now. I guess he was trying to say that even though you got better grades Im going to have my masters next year and you will only have your bachelors. I was wondering why they was comparing themselves to me then I stop giving a fuck. I just kept it moving.
@Chieftan – Welcome – Well the whole game is funny when you see people stepping out of bounds and trying to figure you out. It’s serious missteps but when you are seasoned you laugh at people and their talentless ways.
@AAR – Life is long homie and those who rest on what they accomplished will be passed up by those who focus on building. Nothing lies in that paper but potential and just like having a whole bunch of seeds if you don’t plant them nothing will grow. Finish what you have in front of you and I promise you’ll be looking down on that idiot in a couple of years.
Like I said homie you are piecing together the angles people are throwing at you. He wasn’t concerned with you at all he was trying to tell you what he did. So take it in stride homie as I still have people competing with me on stupid stuff. We have bigger things in mind and they don’t and once you pass them up they’ll be avoiding you because you show them what they could be if they’d stop being a coward and go for it.
Will Smith with a GUN! LOL. I’ll be looking out for you on the West. I think if you didn’t grow up out here in Cali they probably can’t follow you on this podcast. My uncle told me exactly what you are saying here a while ago when I started commenting too much on other folks business. Casually talking about another cat is the same as directly gossiping about a cat. Good podcast.
I think it’s a matter of staying focused and most cats are focused on someone else’s angles instead of developing their own. Curiosity killed the Cat who was Curious about another man’s money! When money is hard to get privacy is important and can be seen as a potential problem.
Great podcast. I’m glad somebody brought the real about the current era we’re in…everybody is so nosy these days. Sad that media and technology have made our lives into another person’s entertainment. You’re right about one thing though…men gossip way more than the ladies. Watch ESPN today…I’m sure everybody had something to say about the Heat. I couldn’t watch..I’m on my Mark Cuban. LOL. I didn’t care what the Mavs had to say either. Let others be the commentators, players and critics to the game. The owner gets the trophy and the $$.
I guess this is a one to grow on podcast. All I kept thinking was King Kong ain’t got shit on me. LOL
I think most men don’t call it gossip but it is. Especially when you always letting cats know what you heard about another cat. How about all the magazines and websites seem to talk about business and money from a celebrity point of view. This is why I guess you call it gossip because all we can talk about is entertainment. I guess if I was about my money I wouldn’t notice someone else’s money right?
@AH – Now I’m not saying you can’t comment on regular stuff but if you comment on someone else keep it short. Make sure it’s nothing anyone can build on and make sure it’s something that if it gets back to you it’s not a big deal.
Cuban got the Money and the players got a Memory.
@Eric – Brothers watch more Soap operas nowadays but they call them reality TV. Suckers are watching rich people and reading their every word like they are laying out a blueprint. It’s the same way a groupie knows everything about a Singer to the point of creating a fan club.
If you were really on your grind you would pick up angles from them while on the road but their words sure as hell don’t get you on the road.
Wow bruh!! Powerful & Strong message! This should be injected into the mind & spirit of every MAN out here. If cats would just follow this simple but rare rule in the game, it would be a lot less bitchassness going on in the world. But like you stated in the podcast, I am more focused on what’s going on inside of myself. Nothing more, nothing less.
The media has created the super gossip outlets. Twitter, Facebook, Myspace, Foursquare are all tidbits of shit gossip media. So when someone gets a new deal it’s retweeted or gossiped about. Now if you’re entertainment that’s great because you get more customers but everyone is being used for their gossiping tendencies. More men are falling for this as they think to know about money means they make money.
We can quietly take over if at first we would be quiet.
Great Podcast. It was funny too.
You kind of remind me of Tommy from Martin when you mentioned your friend of three years not knowing what you do for a living.lol
Hey long time no comment huh? My boy is busy handling his stuff and we just met up for drinks and the like so years went by without neither of us really knowing each others jobs.
It seems that you keep to yourself a lot Freeman, something I’m quickly learning to do because I’m seeing the cats I grew up with not trying to up their game! I mean, I know everyone has their own way but I’m seeing guys I used to run with do little more than smoke, drink and make babies.
I’m not judging but man that’s not the way I see, as you put it “building an empire”. Don’t ask, don’t tell, huh? I tried starting a business with my boys and I was left holding the bag–and even though I’m still in college, the bag is starting to fill with cash!
You ever been around someone who is really trying to get something done? They usually don’t care about anything but what they have to do. I just found out when I remove all the gossip out of my life I get things done very fast. So the way I figured out how to do that was to not ask anyone so I wouldn’t be on the receiving end of it. I don’t really keep to myself but in the early stages of building anything I am usually MIA for about six months until I figure everything out.
Most cowards run in the early stages of business. It happened with me when I started up my own too. If the bag is filling with cash then it’s your reward for sticking to it. Most Suckers are wasting their life on things they don’t have to concentrate on getting. So smoking, drinking and even making babies can be made while on the grind.
The reason why I don’t ask and don’t tell is because all of it was a bunch of gossip. The more you are in that stream of communication of talking about others and their moves the more you look like a Sucker. So maybe it’s a new acronym… SBC – Sucker by Conversation.
I think this podcast applies to women as well. I’ve been to those networking events and women keep trying to figure out how they measure up to other women, or whether they should keep talking to you.
It’s annoying. I can’t take networking events for too long. I really have not seen the point to them. You leave most of the time in the same position you came in. So, I stopped listening to advice from career books.
I can agree with that because I know women are very competitive.
Those career books give generic solutions so we shouldn’t expect real outcomes.