Know Not What They Do – Podcast
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Everyone blames their family for something in this life even though they are old enough to correct it. When you start making money you will think your own family wants you to do bad because they don’t support your crazy business idea. Some of you will actually get so mad that you think your mother, father, uncle or brother or your whole damn family has been against you since you popped out the womb. What most of you fail to realize is that your Family does not have a clue what you do or what it takes for you to make it. So now that we know that why do you still get hurt by people who KNOW NOT WHAT THEY DO!
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Man can I get one excuse when it comes to me not being where I want to be? I understand and I agree that a lot of people are past 21 still blaming their parents or family for not putting them on. We all need an excuse when the solution is really us right?
Everyone else blames their family but everyone else is usually not successful. Once you get your money right you’ll see people it that people really don’t understand more than they were outright trying to stop you. If you are really that powerful and that smart why would the dumb things and dumb people slow you down. It’s an excuse that most cat’s don’t want to admit they use when in actuality no one in the family has had the slightest chance to even mess up their paper route.
Also, thanks for commenting as I think this is one of my most unpopular podcasts for the subject matter.
I’m sure when Puffy quit school to become an intern in the record/entertainment industry, or when Jay-Z and his boys started their record label, or even when Obama said he was going to run for President, that everyone in their families was not jumping up and down for joy and supporting them to the fullest.
We must face the fact that the only one who will see your vision, until it comes into being, is you. The same way as you can’t see other people’s visions they their can’t see yours.
If you don’t make it its your fault just like if you flunk out of college because you didn’t study its not because of the KKK or a conspiracy against us but only because you were to lazy to go to class and do the work.
Just focus on getting there instead of reasons why you can’t get there and you will arrive.
@Freeman: You say you aren’t a motivational speaker but you are, its just in a way that destroys excuses for not getting to where we need to be. I guess you’re just allergic to bull sh**t.
I didn’t have this problem because I joined the military at 18 years old and became my own man. I can’t blame any relatives if I got KIA or MIA because that was on me at 18. I am too shocked listening to a lot of young cats from 18-27 still blaming mom and dad and brother and sister for not having their back the way they wanted to.
The issue many have is we all want to celebrate with our family when we succeed and we just want them to be there as we go up. So it is shocking to see them not there to watch us go up and go for ours. Many of us take it personal but I think you broke it down to where they just want to see little nephew or little niece stay cute.
We all have to remember that the road to success is a lonely one and we going to be on it by ourselves. In other to do for self, we have to accept we will be by ourselves on the journey and deal with that fact.
@JGalt – I think most people know it in their head but it’s hard to do for self when you want everyone in your family to be supportive. I think this is a major hangup of most people in life as they look back saying their family didn’t do anything. How many Grown Men need the support of their family? NONE or at least NONE that plan to achieve anything in life.
85% of the stuff people think are against them are GHOSTS. Family is a easy GHOST that everyone can relate to because they might think you’re crazy when you say the Illumanati or the KKK. But, when you say you had a crappy mom everyone can understand because they are all spoiled failures in life too.
I got your motivation for you tomorrow…
@Ed – I think the earlier you take on life the less excuses you make about not being comfortable. I too thought it was unfair but I got the hell up and did something about it. Once I did I can see my family gave me all they had and knew at that time and it was up to me to push forward.
Most cats don’t understand the journey is celebrated by the cat on the road everyone else will only celebrate when you finish.
Great Post! I experienced this as a youngsta. It’s embarrsing now. I don’t shit on family, but I know my place. They are the people to spend Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years with. Would I be there for my family? Yeah, a few of them.
Exactly they are just family not business advisers! Sometimes people stay in their adolescent stage a bit too long looking for approval but when you get to be 21 what the hell do you need a pat on the back for?
Also, I can understand why you say some of them. Growing up also let’s you know which ones to stay away from as their dirty habits you don’t want crossing into your life.
With all that being said they are good to be familiar faces who have a natural love for you based off nothing but you are related. The higher you go in this chip game the more you’ll value people who genuinely like you.
“If you mess up, it’s not your parents fault; so don’t wine about your mistakes, learn from them.” – Bill Gates ( I think lol).
One of the few worthy quotes that stuck with me after i graduated high school.
It’s funny to hear people who are adults say what was said about them from 15 years ago has scarred them forever. Either the person is retarded or they are mentally retarded! If you want to be a grown up in life then whatever you had to come through is over and you have to challenge yourself to get to Zero and then grow beyond your past.
It’s like talking to someone who was called fat when they were a teenager and decided that’s who they are forever without taking on the issue that seems to hold them back. Family seems to be every losers reason for their failures.