Don’t Matter Don’t Exist

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Everyone and everything that inhibits your hustle don’t matter and don’t exist. As you make money and start trying to ease back into life somewhat under the radar you will run into cats who want to challenge you. Now this ain’t the streets so the cats aren’t carrying guns but when the big fish steps into a small pond people notice and they start to question who you are. They want to verify everything you did and everyone you know looking for a chink in the armor. When you speak they want to make sure they take credit for the things they brought to the table even though you don’t want anything on that table. They feel the need to puff up their feathers like a pigeon and somehow give you the impression that they can do what you did. The problem is they didn’t and since you know what making money is about you know they never will!

Real talk this comes up the majority of time with people who haven’t done it. Sometimes your own quiet confidence is enough to intimidate the cat who has been selling his angle for years. Yes, it’s competition but if the cat can’t win anything then it really boils down to another form of hating. This is why once you know you can’t really tell anyone because some will receive and others will plot on you. It’s nothing you can really do about it because it’s the confidence in your voice that let’s people know this will work while the best the other cat can come up with is maybe it will. It’s the confidence you exude that shows you don’t need their help for not a damn thing. It’s the confidence you exude that shows you’ll go and create and prove your angle works. All this shows up in your voice when you run into these type of cats.

Sooner or later they will try to exclude you from their reindeer games. Now I don’t want you to think you can’t come back into regular life from your hustle because you can. It’s just you have to pick and choose or be lucky enough to find cats who have their own. Any man who has his own is usually very comfortable with you getting and having your own. When you come back into the public you should recognize that most people don’t have their own so you will run into cats trying to talk out of the side of their neck about you. Like a little girl who hopes you don’t really pay attention to what they just said these cats will do the same thing. Look your Hustle and Grind has made you more sensitive to everything as that’s how you survived. The problem is you are also more tuned in to the true nature of people so you will spot this jackass 3 months before he overtly starts hating.

Solution: These cats don’t matter and they don’t exist. Trying to fit in again is fools gold and all these people didn’t help you build it so only you give them the power or say to ruin your day.



3 Comments

  1. Trueman wrote:

    This is as true as it gets. Eventually you have to grow, and not everyone will grow with you. Leave them behind if they get in the way of your progress.

  2. ed wrote:

    When you go for yours and become the person you set out to be, it makes others uncomfortable.

    The sad truth is other people want to define us and size us up to make them feel comfortable.

    Live your life, chase your goals and love the fact you doing what you feel is inside you. These other cats and their comfort level trying size me and you up don’t matter.

  3. FreeMan wrote:

    @TrueMan – I think most people want to double back and act like what they built for themselves didn’t differentiate themselves from everyone else. That’s just a mistake. Sometimes it’s in everyone’s best interest that you just move on as you are not in the same station in life anymore. Especially if you feel people are questioning your manhood because of some deep hate that they cannot articulate. It’s best to keep it moving….

    @Ed – What’s that saying once you go Black you can never go Back. Well it applies to your money being in the Black too! You have to feel comfortable with your life decisions that got you out of situations. Now you are not better than anyone but you have had better experiences and since they can’t share them with you it’s often misconstrued as you being condescending. It’s better that we just recognize that instead of trying to come back to something we can never come back to and that is a unenlightened state of mind.

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