Comments on: Abandonment Issues

By: FreeMan

FreeMan — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 03:37:03 +0000

It usually does because it’s based on nothing. Emotion is based off of a feeling and those feelings are usually wrong. It’s just emotions are a drug and people feel more powerful when they use them.

Like I said if they didn’t take anything from you then you have nothing to worry about.

By: nettajames

nettajames — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 02:56:05 +0000

I actually go by the philosophy that acting in emotion has a higher outcome of being bad than being rational or logical. Good post.

By: FreeMan

FreeMan — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 16:55:39 +0000

@Soul Rebel – my contact info is freeman@riseandgrind.com

@AP – Thanks on the layout! I think we all have to realize people will go as far as they possibly can. It’s not always a pety reason why cats leave it might have more to do with what’s going on in their lives at the time. I think it’s just smarter not to bank on anyone seeing it to the end but the person who originated the idea.

By: Arthur Pledger

Arthur Pledger — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 15:06:56 +0000

Very applicable post. I like the earlier comment “Its a business deal, not a marriage”. Money and success are emotional things, so its understandable in some cases. BTW, like the new layout! Holla

By: Soul Rebel

Soul Rebel — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 14:38:27 +0000

Freeman- What is your contact info?

By: FreeMan

FreeMan — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 05:19:35 +0000

When you first start anything you take everything personal. When you finally get your feet off the ground you really don’t care who’s coming or not. The less people the more money for you.

By: on the move

on the move — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 02:32:41 +0000

Why do I feel like everyone thinks this way and then grows out of it? I think it’s part of being a teenager to feel everyone is somehow against you. So the lesson is to stop acting like a little girl LOL! You’re right people do have a life of their own and when people leave it can really be because they don’t have the time more than them having a problem with you.

By: FreeMan

FreeMan — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 20:32:08 +0000

Well it’s a business deal it’s not a marriage. If you put so much into someone else being there for your idea to succeed it’s your fault not theirs. People have choice and until they bring back slavery you’d be wise to keep in mind that anyone can leave at anytime. Especially if the person is not getting a big share of the money or feels cheated.

The only person not doing for self is the person who is married to you or your own children. Their future is tied into you being ok as they are relying on you. Otherwise out for self is the name of the game with money. Even when I build a business that can help Black people I still am trying to make money. It’s just a win win but let’s not ever doubt that I went into business to make money for myself.

By: Keish

Keish — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 20:16:23 +0000

i’m just coming out of that stage where i took everything personal but you right, everyone is out for self, it’s really nothing against me, they just put their own needs first. and if i learned this lesson correctly, i’ll become great at doing this too. great post. have a fab weekend :~)

By: FreeMan

FreeMan — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 19:16:35 +0000

Like I said when you’re young in the game you make these mistakes. It’s because you are so self-centered that you take everything personal like someone doesn’t believe in you. The older you get the more you notice no one believes in you and you should reward those who do make a personal sacrifice to bring your idea into being. It’s a life lesson that most people only realize by burning bridges and feeling like a idiot years later.

No books as of yet. I never wanted to be the cat who claims to be the King of all Hustle, as much as I wanted to share what I know so you can pick and choose what will benefit you.